I can’t believe what the hell is going on inside this man’s head!! He has been driving me crazy!!
Well, I have been dealing with a guy business wise. The thing we had between us was calls, once in a month or two. I asked him to do me a favor over a thing and he promised he will but asked me to remind him.
I hate it when people ask me to remind them over something they should do without my reminders or memos!! So, I called him 2 days later to remind him. He was like “Sorry, I can’t talk to you,”. I had this big amount of hallucinations, what wrong did I do!! I am very respectable and always formal. I thought it was something I did. He then told me the shockest news ever!! He told me that his wife just passed away and he has just come to the hospital to see her body!!
I don’t know if such kind of phobia but I have been having death-phobia ever since I lost my dad. I was really devastated, I felt my heart sank into my legs. I paid him my duty. I hang up with my face yellow as a banana as my friend said. I spent two days thinking about how bad he might be feeling because I had been in his shoe. Don’t get me wrong, I have NOTHING towards this guy. I didn’t even know he was married until I heard of her death!!
Today, I saw a missed call from him while I was asleep this morning. I called him back in the evening. He told me that he called to wish me happy Eid blah blah. He said he is sorry and that he didn’t forget what I asked him to check on for me but he got busy with his wife’s death . As curious as I am, I asked what was wrong with her? He said she had been hospitalized for almost 4 months due to her cancer. He started muttering some words and then throw a bomb over my head when said he wants to propose to me!! YEAH, you heard it right!! He wanted to marry me!!
Let me repeat what I know about this guy:
What he knows about me:
1. My name
2. My work
A counted phone calls as I said was how I knew him!
Ok, I know for a fact that me being Virgo means a very mesmerizing character but I am still in denial. Not because I don’t know him or that he doesn’t know me but because his wife has just died!! It hasn’t been a month even!!
Ofcourse, you’re wondering about my reaction. I was shocked but kept calm and said I am not interested in marriage at all and changed the subject immediately. He felt it and took 10 seconds to say Ok, take care now. Bye he said and bye I said!!
End of the story!!
P.S. I am still in denial!!