I have written a post earlier about “Married Women” which arouse lots of cotroversy among many bloggers. So, enough with women and welcome to men and their endless problems!!
Not you singles, I am refering to those married or those who act-like-married-men.
Marriage is a very big word which contains lots of honorable meanings underneath it. I am not married yet, but I have read, seen, known, watched a lot about this strong commitment being called “Marriage”. It’s a symbol of commitment, awareness, responisibility, and most importantly FAITHFULNESS.
The word “faithfulness” can be defined this way:
- Adhering firmly and devotedly, as to a person, cause, or idea; loyal.
- Engaging in sex only with one’s spouse or only with one’s partner in a sexual relationship.
- Having or full of faith.
- Worthy of trust or belief; reliable.
- Consistent with truth or actuality: a faithful reproduction of the portrait.
- The practicing members of a religious faith, especially of Christianity or Islam: a pilgrimage to Mecca made by the faithful.
- The steadfast adherents of a faith or cause: a meeting of the party faithful.
So faithfulness as the definitions stated above is always under one category which is “TO ONE PERSON ONLY” whether it is love, religion, spouse, reality, and even sex.
The reason why I am kind of really pissed off is the way married people act. I am fed up with married men in the malls with their wives next to them while they are busy flirting!! YEAH, flirting and alluring as if there is no body with them!! I mean, I can understand why some singles and looking flirt women almot everywhere. However, what I can’t understand is the married type an moreover, with kids.
I can never forget that day when I was at the library buying some school stuff for my niece. There was this guy who was in his late 40s with his 8 years old daughter. He was buying for her as well and holding her hand in a soft fatherly way while she was jumping out of happiness seeing all those pinkish bags and note books in front of her.
I smiled in the inside for seeing such a pleasant view. What devastated me is when I noticed that he was following me everywhere. I thought that maybe he wants something since he has no female partner with him and is maybe confused with what to buy. He came closer while I was heading towards my niece who was running to buy some stickers from the other side. He came to flirt with me!! He passed by me touching himself and muttering some inaudible words!!
He was doing all that with his girl in his hand, can you believe how sick he is!! No, nothing is wrong with me at all. My abaya is a loose one with no colors or decorations whatsoever. Right, I don’t cover but i never go out with my make up on!! My legs started shaking and I found myself dragging out my niece and leaving that library for good!!
I took her to play because she burst out crying like crazy. I could have done many things to that guy but he was with his daughter!! I didn’t want to shake that good-father-image in her eyes nor to make a fuss. I am a very strong by the way and can do many things about it but I decided to withdraw peacefully!!
When we were about to leave the games section, I noticed that the same dirty-idiot-asshole man was there. To my shock, his wife and two grown up boys were with him!! Is that the father figure they always sing about!! If the father himself acts this way, what would the kids do then!!
It’s not only this case, I have seen a lot. All by married men along with their wives. No, nothing is wrong with the wife. The wife’s abaya is usually the latest, tightest, with the strongest eye linar and eye shadow and a suffocating smell that she wears. Isn’t all enough you sicko!!
I always pray to God not to let me marry a guy who has one second thought of cheating on me!! It’s the biggest sin ever!!
P.S. 80 % of married men cheat on their wives!! Sad, isn’t it!!