I have been feeling really blue today 😦
I didn’t do anything worong, didn’t harm anybody, and kept my smile on all day long at work though my headaches were really killing me!!
The question I beg for its answer is:
Would you prefer to deal with a person who is frank with you or someone who keeps things hidden from you by keeping them in his/her chest which will probably create grudges!!??
The reason why I am asking this is because I am an open person!!
I say the things I feel outloud. I tell people how I feel after doing something to me whether bad or good!!
Today, I told my bestest friend that I have been upset from her because she has been ignoring my phone calls and messages. I told her that I started to feel that we are not that close anymore and that she makes me feel that calling or texting is like a routine now!! I lost that sense, should I have lied!!
She was quiet for a while and then told me that if she has ever felt the same, she would have never told me that!!
I told her that I am “frank” by nature and then she was like “Oh, yeah”!! Then I hung up because I reached home by then.
I called her twice five minutes ago but she hasn’t replied nor called back until this moment!!
Shall I stop being frank if it means hurting the people I love!!